“I’m So Busy”

“Just A Thought” with Kerry R.

its timeI’m so busy..

One of the more common themes that keep coming up around myself and friends is how busy we are! Whether it is work, children, relationships or the whole lot combined.. we just never feel like there are enough hours in the day to get everything done. This almost always leads to feelings of frustration, stress and even a feeling of just not being enough.


So how do we navigate a world which is always seeming to pull us in so many different directions? We start by knowing exactly what we want. Sometimes we have to work this out by experiencing that which we don’t exactly want in our lives BUT one thing is certain, whether we experience something we do want or whether we experience the opposite, how we feel tells us everything we need to know in the end.


We just have to be honest. And it starts with ourselves.


The thing is, when we start being honest with ourselves we start to recognise all the areas of our lives that are pulling our attention in the wrong direction, I think we then begin to recognise the places where changes are needed.

Suddenly we recognise that we have to start letting some things go. And dare I say it, we have to learn to say NO. Not only that, we have to learn to say no unapologetically.


Change isn’t always easy. Saying no and feeling like you are letting people down is uncomfortable.. But guess what? Spreading yourself so thin trying to keep everyone happy (except yourself) hurts your spirit so much more.

Let it be uncomfortable. Let people be unimpressed with you. But know that it is all for the right reasons.

Is it selfish? On some level probably but I’m actually fully on board with being selfish at times. Sometimes we need to be our main priority. Sometimes we need to say no in order to pursue whatever it is that lights us up inside. If making your wellbeing your main priority makes you selfish.. so be it.


The other problem we tend to encounter when we begin to say no is that niggling urge to explain ourselves. We always feel like there should be an explanation that follows the word no. The reality is we can say no and mean it without having to try to justify it.

Obviously, there are times when giving an explanation is only fair to the other person. Being empowered enough to say no to anything that doesn’t fill you with excitement does not give you free reign to be an ass.

Let’s be clear, saying no can be empowering. It can allow you to regain a sense of control over your already busy life.. it’s an invaluable tool that many authentically dynamic women carry in their kit. The key is knowing how to use this tool in a way which frees you from unnecessary time stealing tasks while being gracious and understanding.


Are you tired of hearing yourself say how busy you are?

Are you running around like a busy fool?

Are you starting to resent the people who always seem to need your time or attention?

If so then start making changes today.

What are you unhappy with exactly? Identify the issue and change it.

Say no to picking up everyone else’s responsibilities.

Be a little bit more selfish with your time.

Make your priorities your main priority.


Like I said before, beginning to change these areas can be really uncomfortable and some people probably wont like the fact that you are no longer as “available” as you once were. But I can honestly say that finding your voice can be one of the most single empowering things you can do for yourself. Respect your time and others will have no choice but to do the same.



Kerry R

Ghost Girl Runs Through Bank and Vanishes

Ghost Girl Runs Through Bank and Vanishes

This video was posted on Facebook on the 23rd of January by Dayanna Cari Ramos. It claims to show the ghost of a young girl, You can clearly see the dark shadow of a small person in the background, the moves with ease through the bank.

Dean James Fox has reviewed this video, and will tell you if he thinks its REAL or FAKE!

DJF’s Findings


This video for me is amazing, After watching the video over and over and over, I’m still shocked at the way the dark shadow runs, most of the faked videos I have watched, always show shadows floating through the image and most of the time. they coss everything in the picture, but not this one, the shadow bobs like a real child and almost follows the correct path of the backs layout,

In the second part of the video it shows the doors moving but no image of a shadow, is this the girl or is it more natural than that?


This video is ………Half and half,

First part – I would like to think this is real, just by the natural movements of the child running and the way it follows the layout of the bank, most faked videos want us to see ghosts walk through objects,

Second part – sorry to say but I think this is the wind, just from the way the doors move in and out before opening, almost like suction has been created,


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Does your dog see dead people?

Does your dog see dead people?

By Lucy P.

the belief that dogs have a sixth sense has gone back thousands of years, do you believe it to be true? Is your dog sensing a presence, seeing a paranormal phenomenon or just seeing things that we miss? Does your dog see ghosts?? Here are some signs that show that they just may do..

Copy of Copy of Copy of Home Staging1. What can they hear?

The hearing range of dog is vastly better than ours, they can hear higher pitched noises which as we know the spirit world connects this way sometimes. Does your dog prick their ears up and you can hear nothing, this could be them listening to the sounds from the other side.






Copy of Copy of Copy of Home Staging (1)2. What are they seeing?

A dogs vision is much better and sharper than ours. They may react to a certain place where there is no relevance but actually they may be seeing activity that we can not see.







Copy of Copy of Copy of Home Staging (4)3. Sixth Sense

Does your dog know when you are ill? Can they sense when a storm is coming? Do they know when someone is about to knock on the door before they have even got near the house? The fact that dogs have a sixth sense is not probably something you didn’t know. If your dog is sensitive to these things then that might not be all they are sensitive to.





Copy of Copy of Copy of Home Staging (2)4. What are they smelling?

A dog will sniff at anything and everything, as their sense of smell is up to 100,000 times stronger than ours. For this reason it could mean that they can “smell” any paranormal activity going on.







Copy of Copy of Copy of Home Staging (3)5. Attracted/scared of something

Your dog may flee from a certain place or instantly go there, it maybe that they gain comfort from it and that a spirit is giving them love or indeed scaring