“I’m So Busy”

“Just A Thought” with Kerry R.

its timeI’m so busy..

One of the more common themes that keep coming up around myself and friends is how busy we are! Whether it is work, children, relationships or the whole lot combined.. we just never feel like there are enough hours in the day to get everything done. This almost always leads to feelings of frustration, stress and even a feeling of just not being enough.


So how do we navigate a world which is always seeming to pull us in so many different directions? We start by knowing exactly what we want. Sometimes we have to work this out by experiencing that which we don’t exactly want in our lives BUT one thing is certain, whether we experience something we do want or whether we experience the opposite, how we feel tells us everything we need to know in the end.


We just have to be honest. And it starts with ourselves.


The thing is, when we start being honest with ourselves we start to recognise all the areas of our lives that are pulling our attention in the wrong direction, I think we then begin to recognise the places where changes are needed.

Suddenly we recognise that we have to start letting some things go. And dare I say it, we have to learn to say NO. Not only that, we have to learn to say no unapologetically.


Change isn’t always easy. Saying no and feeling like you are letting people down is uncomfortable.. But guess what? Spreading yourself so thin trying to keep everyone happy (except yourself) hurts your spirit so much more.

Let it be uncomfortable. Let people be unimpressed with you. But know that it is all for the right reasons.

Is it selfish? On some level probably but I’m actually fully on board with being selfish at times. Sometimes we need to be our main priority. Sometimes we need to say no in order to pursue whatever it is that lights us up inside. If making your wellbeing your main priority makes you selfish.. so be it.


The other problem we tend to encounter when we begin to say no is that niggling urge to explain ourselves. We always feel like there should be an explanation that follows the word no. The reality is we can say no and mean it without having to try to justify it.

Obviously, there are times when giving an explanation is only fair to the other person. Being empowered enough to say no to anything that doesn’t fill you with excitement does not give you free reign to be an ass.

Let’s be clear, saying no can be empowering. It can allow you to regain a sense of control over your already busy life.. it’s an invaluable tool that many authentically dynamic women carry in their kit. The key is knowing how to use this tool in a way which frees you from unnecessary time stealing tasks while being gracious and understanding.


Are you tired of hearing yourself say how busy you are?

Are you running around like a busy fool?

Are you starting to resent the people who always seem to need your time or attention?

If so then start making changes today.

What are you unhappy with exactly? Identify the issue and change it.

Say no to picking up everyone else’s responsibilities.

Be a little bit more selfish with your time.

Make your priorities your main priority.


Like I said before, beginning to change these areas can be really uncomfortable and some people probably wont like the fact that you are no longer as “available” as you once were. But I can honestly say that finding your voice can be one of the most single empowering things you can do for yourself. Respect your time and others will have no choice but to do the same.



Kerry R

Ghost Girl Runs Through Bank and Vanishes

Ghost Girl Runs Through Bank and Vanishes

This video was posted on Facebook on the 23rd of January by Dayanna Cari Ramos. It claims to show the ghost of a young girl, You can clearly see the dark shadow of a small person in the background, the moves with ease through the bank.

Dean James Fox has reviewed this video, and will tell you if he thinks its REAL or FAKE!

DJF’s Findings


This video for me is amazing, After watching the video over and over and over, I’m still shocked at the way the dark shadow runs, most of the faked videos I have watched, always show shadows floating through the image and most of the time. they coss everything in the picture, but not this one, the shadow bobs like a real child and almost follows the correct path of the backs layout,

In the second part of the video it shows the doors moving but no image of a shadow, is this the girl or is it more natural than that?


This video is ………Half and half,

First part – I would like to think this is real, just by the natural movements of the child running and the way it follows the layout of the bank, most faked videos want us to see ghosts walk through objects,

Second part – sorry to say but I think this is the wind, just from the way the doors move in and out before opening, almost like suction has been created,


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Crystal Of The Week – Tiger Eye


tiger eye crystalTiger Eye brings confidence, strength, courage, protection and good luck. It sharpens the senses, promotes intuition and helps one to be practical, centred and grounded. It enhances personal power, allows clarity, good judgement, clear perception and insight, aiding in good decision making. Tiger Eye can be used to stimulate wealth and maintain it.

Healing: Balances emotions, reduces headaches, aids the digestive organs, spleen, pancreas, and colon. Helps the reproductive system, relieves asthma attacks and enhances night vision.
Chakra: Sacral & Solar Plexus

“I have chosen Tiger eye as the crystal of the week because it brings great sense of Confidence and empowerment, Keep this crystal in your pocket when you need balance in your life, ”  DJFx

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Does your dog see dead people?

Does your dog see dead people?

By Lucy P.

the belief that dogs have a sixth sense has gone back thousands of years, do you believe it to be true? Is your dog sensing a presence, seeing a paranormal phenomenon or just seeing things that we miss? Does your dog see ghosts?? Here are some signs that show that they just may do..

Copy of Copy of Copy of Home Staging1. What can they hear?

The hearing range of dog is vastly better than ours, they can hear higher pitched noises which as we know the spirit world connects this way sometimes. Does your dog prick their ears up and you can hear nothing, this could be them listening to the sounds from the other side.






Copy of Copy of Copy of Home Staging (1)2. What are they seeing?

A dogs vision is much better and sharper than ours. They may react to a certain place where there is no relevance but actually they may be seeing activity that we can not see.







Copy of Copy of Copy of Home Staging (4)3. Sixth Sense

Does your dog know when you are ill? Can they sense when a storm is coming? Do they know when someone is about to knock on the door before they have even got near the house? The fact that dogs have a sixth sense is not probably something you didn’t know. If your dog is sensitive to these things then that might not be all they are sensitive to.





Copy of Copy of Copy of Home Staging (2)4. What are they smelling?

A dog will sniff at anything and everything, as their sense of smell is up to 100,000 times stronger than ours. For this reason it could mean that they can “smell” any paranormal activity going on.







Copy of Copy of Copy of Home Staging (3)5. Attracted/scared of something

Your dog may flee from a certain place or instantly go there, it maybe that they gain comfort from it and that a spirit is giving them love or indeed scaring

Get out of your way. by Kerry R.

Get out of your way.chains

by Kerry R. (a UK blogger and a good friend to Dean James Fox)


When it comes to starting something new, making a change or taking those first few steps to making your dream a reality, doubt and insecurity can be your biggest enemies. No matter how badly you want something sometimes it just feels as though you aren’t quite ready or even not worthy enough to obtain it.

And I get it. Completely.

But in all honesty it isn’t doubt, insecurity or anything else that is standing in your way.. the only thing holding you back is YOU.

That might be a hard pill to swallow for some people and it may even trigger some people into a knee jerk word vomit of excuses but bare with me.

The thing is, if you want something badly enough and you know how to get there but you choose to not follow through because of fear, doubt and insecurity then that my friend is a choice you have made. Yes it is scary. Going beyond your comfort zone is daunting and it sometimes feels icky but if you persevere the rewards can be so much greater than if you stay exactly where you are, paralysed by self doubt.

The old saying is true “if you want something you’ve never had then you must do something you’ve never done”, that includes taking the steps to move past the obstacles that you are allowing to block your path.

If you are at the point of wanting to make a change in your life (regardless how big or how small) then now is the time to delve into why you never made these changes sooner. If the reason is fear, uncertainty, shame or anything remotely negative then it needs to be addressed.

An amazing way to really get in touch with your own thoughts, feelings and deep rooted beliefs is to write it down. When you put pen to paper and just write you can really uncover some thoughts and feelings that you never really knew were there. Not only that, you then have the opportunity to read back what you have uncovered and begin to make sense of it.

You don’t have to even make sense with what you are writing to begin with, the key is to not overthink. Just begin to write and allow the words to flow.

Like I said before, it might get uncomfortable and you may at times feel like you want to stay put, this resistance to change is a call for you to push on, delve deeper and I promise that on the other side of all this hard work is true growth.



Life itself can be so tricky at times, it throws us curveballs which can make chasing down our dreams harder than it already is. Don’t add to the frustration by being your own worst enemy.

Dig deep and work through that self doubt and address every insecurity as it shows up, the rewards will be so much more fulfilling!!


Love always,

Kerry R

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Woman Captures Paranormal Activity In Her Bedroom

Woman Captures Paranormal Activity In Her Bedroom

This woman was able to capture paranormal activity in her bedroom. As she was sleeping, her bathroom door flung wide open and her bedsheets began to slide off. She quickly woke up and tried to figure out what was going on

Dean James Fox has reviewed this video, and will tell you if he thinks its REAL or FAKE!

DJF’s Findings

This video is one of the best I’ve seen, I find it very interesting that the lady in the video is confused and doesn’t say a word, on many fake videos they always try and make the people in them scared or run away, this is always a big sign of a fake video, also in the top left of the screan there is a lot of activity, I can not tell at this stage if its orbs, dust or flying animals, and makes very intresting viewing, saying that I  still have one main question.

why is the light switch next to the bed and not next to the door? after looking closer I see there is part of the wall by the door out of view of the camera, is this where the switch is and is it just not in view? or is it out of view for a reason? the reason being someone can play with the switch?


This video is …………. I’m on the fence with this video, I can not say FAKE or REAL. and I would be interested in seeing if there was or is any more videos to back up the authenticity of the haunting.


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Crystal Of The Week, Agate – Blue Lace

Agate – Blue Lace

agate Blue Lace

Agate is a stone of strength and courage; it tones and strengthens the mind & body, grounding and stabilising emotions and physical energy. Agate helps with the acceptance of oneself and to see the truth. Its healing and cleansing qualities eliminate negative energy, soothing and calming the mind, body & spirit. Agate occurs naturally in many colours but is also often dyed brilliant bright colours.

Healing: Tones and strengthens the body, heals emotional tension-related diseases, stimulates the digestive system and heals skin disorders

Chakras: Third Eye & Crown


“I have chosen Blue Lace as the crystal of the week because we all need that little extra support from the universe, This stone is perfect for anyone in need of self-acceptance”  DJFx

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Prank or poltergeist? CCTV footage from Deerpark CBS, the oldest (and most haunted!!!!?) school on the south side of Cork City.

Dean James Fox has reviewed this video, and will tell you if he thinks its REAL or FAKE!

DJF’s Findings

After watching this video, I had to ask myself a few things,

One: Why are the lockers over a doorway or a window? This makes it very easy to be moved from behind.

Two: The height of the camera height?  Look at the top right, you can see what looks more like an actual camera height that points at this area,  They would not have mounted security cameras at a height lower than a door frame where it could be tampered with.

Three: The sign appears to have been yanked by a leg with fishing line this is very easy to edit out,

Four: Why this looker door?  why is this the only locker that has books in it and not locked? making me think it could be staged


This video is FAKE,


9 Ways to Recognize and Identify Past Life Lovers, Friends, & Enemies

9 ways

Sometimes we meet people and have an instant connection. A feeling that we have met before or drawn together like magnets, well maybe just maybe you have? Important people in our life are very likely to have been people you may have met before. How can you tell? Firstly let’s stop and consider if it’s possible.

Once you realize there is a link of “Interactions with others”, you will see it everywhere: former lovers, friends, enemies, family members and even pets, yes I did say pets. Sometimes our own mind plays tricks with us and see links that really could never be, but some connections, the valid ones, ultimately prove themselves time and time again.

Here are 9 ways to identify the “Interactions with others” that have drawn you back into each other’s lives, for better or for worse

9 Ways to Recognize and Identify Past Life Lovers, Friends, & Enemies

1. Instant hate or dislike.

You hope to see good in everything they say, but something just bugs you and you can’t shake it off. You can never put your finger on it but the feeling just gets stronger and stronger and you may just have that deep nagging instinct which is another name for memory? Maybe they hurt you in a past life and this is your opportunity to deal with the pain, by giving them as much healing as possible.

2. Instant rapport.

You start talking and you can’t stop, but for all you understand each other, the other person gets it and gets you. You fall into a conversation like you have known each other for years, picking up a back and forth exchange that you left off. If the conversation is a balanced give-and-take, with shared goals and mutual respect, count yourselves fortunate, and hold on to this relationship.

3. Nervous Butterflies.

Your stomach is in knots and almost flutters when you’re around this person. This might even be a love-relationship in the present, but an underlying stress won’t allow you to relax. You always feel on edge, you try too hard to please, you might be “happy” in the externals, but those butterflies linger.

4. Longevity.

This person has always been part of your life (or family member). Take a closer look at them. How much in common do you have? Or is it you are forever life companions

5. Shared tastes.

Do you have a joint interest or passion? Where do your lines of compatibility cross? Do you both love the same things, food or culture? Take interest in similar sport, art, hobby, and pastime? Ask yourself, who invited who to the interest or passions or were they always there?

6. Inappropriate sexual attraction.

We very often trade roles in past lives. You may have been a man but returned as a woman or woman and came back as a man, this is in order to learn and grow. You may find yourself very tactile with someone as soon as you meet them, or just want a one night stand with a stranger. This could be “the perfect meeting” or is it just, you have met before in another time?

7. Fear.

Your memory may not be at the conscious level, but you know Past-life events have had an impact on how you feel, if not recognized and resolved, often repeat. Circumstances may change slightly, but the end result stays the same. If your gut tells you to run, do it, even if your fear seems wildly unreasonable in the present lifetime. You will never be compatible with this person.

8. Guilt.

You’re always giving more than you get in return. I would say this is certainly a good thing now and then, but every time and all the time and with the same person, shows something unseen is at work. You feel you owe them, for no reason other than, you just want to please them, and no matter how hard you try, you fail. Knowing that should help the balance slowly shift. It’s entirely up to you. Only you can forgive yourself and until you do, their feelings won’t change the deep guilt.

9. Flashbacks.

You might suddenly remember your past lives together. Especially if you’re aware and alert to the possibility. Trust your insights. But remember this life is new, and you are not here to live the life you may have had before.

Final thought

When taking all the signs into account, I ask you not to try and change things too much, you are been show the people you once trusted or despised for a reason. Take time to understand the reason and this will help you move forward on your own path.

Do You See Dead People? Are You Psychic?

Do you see dead people? Are you psychic? by Lucy P.

Ever get the feeling that you are not alone, feel like you are being watched or see something out of the corner of your eye but when you turn around nothing is there? Ever get a message or symbol in your head and you have no idea where it has come from? It could be a message from a loved one trying to get your attention. There are several signs that the spirit world is trying to relay a message to you and here are some of them..



A New Design (1)1. DREAMS When you go into the land of nod the spirit world can try to connect as your conscious mind closes and you are more receptive to the other side. You may dream of a loved one who has passed or a place where you spent time together, this could be a message they are trying to give you.






smoke2. SENSES Did your loved one wear a specific perfume, do you sometimes smell this? This is a sign that they are close. Maybe you hear a high pitched noise or ringing in your ears? When sounds travel to us from the other side it can come through like this. Be open to your senses, be aware of different smells, touches, tastes, visions or sounds.






bulb3. ELECTRONICS Are your lights flickering, going on and off, the television switching channels, radio playing that song that you both loved just when you were thinking of them? Spirits are energy and they use their charge to let you know they are nearby.







feeling4. GUT FEELING We all have that gut feeling, a voice in our head saying that we should be doing something although we are not sure why. Spirits use this way to communicate, to guide us through difficult times. Always ask the question if you are unsure and wait for the answer to let you know what you need to do.






A New Design (5)5. GOOSEBUMPS, THAT CHILLY FEELING Despite being in a warm room you suddenly feel a cold chill. Goosebumps appear when you think about a loved one. This is them letting you know that they are with you.







drive6. COINCIDENCE? Have you been driving along and see a billboard or sign and it was just what you were thinking? This is you in line with the universe and confirmation that you are indeed on the right track and your spirit guides are helping you on the way.








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